Sexuality and Intimacy

Sexuality and Intimacy

People want sex for many reasons, and the reason matters as much as the act: the same behaviour can express love, seek reassurance, chase pleasure, relieve stress or protect a relationship, and partners read the motive as clearly as the act itself. This topic follows the research on sexual motives, desire and affection, including the studies that anchor the Interpersona archive.

It also covers physical affection in public and private, and how couples negotiate different levels of desire without turning difference into rejection.

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Why we want sex: motives, gender and context

Hatfield, Luckhurst and Rapson asked people why they have sex, and took the answers seriously. The reasons turn out to be layered, social, and more similar across genders than the stereotypes suggest.

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From the archive

Hatfield, Luckhurst and Rapson anchor this topic with their archive paper on sexual motives, gender and context.

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